Lecture 9

* 1. Advice to men on communication:

1. Love, understand, believe her
2. Believe her without having to agree with her
3. Focus on the issue to be able to give her solutions
4. A & B above
5. None of the above

* 2. Advice to women on communication:

1. Give more details when communicating with him
2. Follow him wherever and whenever he goes
3. Be patient when you communicate with him
4. Communicate less with him
5. None of the above

* 3. Effective communication means:

1. To speak more
2. To cross the gap to your partner and to know him/her better
3. To say what pleases your partner
4. B & C above
5. None of the above

* 4. During conflicts, the speaker’s job is:

1. Speak for yourself (“I” statements) instead of (“you” statements)
2. Describe how you would feel if your wish came true
3. Point out your partner’s mistakes in details
4. A & B above
5. None of the above

* 5. Comparing the discussion between Rachel and Jacob in (Genesis 30) with the discussion between Elkanah and Hannah in (I Samuel 1), which conversation do you find more efficient?

1. Rachel and Jacob
2. Elkanah and Hannah
3. Both
4. None

* 6. The element of ‘Respect’ is important in communication. Respect is defined as:

1. The foundation in communication in marriage
2. The most fragile factor in marriage
3. The most forgotten factor in marriage
4. None of the above
5. A & B above

* 7. True respect means:

1. Respecting his/her weaknesses
2. Respecting him/her in front of others
3. Respecting his/her academic degree and financial status
4. It is the factor that takes the longest in marriage life
5. None of the above

* 8. The element of ‘Understanding’ is important in communication. Understanding was defined as:

1. The foundation in communication in marriage
2. The most fragile factor in marriage
3. The most forgotten factor in marriage
4. The factor that takes the longest in marriage life
5. A & B above

* 9. The element of ‘Trusting’ is important in communication. Trusting was defined as:

1. The foundation in communication in marriage
2. The most fragile factor in marriage
3. The most forgotten factor in marriage
4. None of the above
5. A & B above

* 10. To get the most out of communication during engagement period:

1. Speak about anything and everything
2. Use eye contact and avoid disturbance
3. Discover your partner
4. All of the above
5. None of the above