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Lecture 4
Lecture 4
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1. These are signs that you are unable to control yourself:
Never complete tasks
Cannot control your tongue (words of your mouth)
Over-spending
Lack of time management
All the above
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2. Keeping boundaries at work is essential; which one of these answers is NOT a sign of lack of control at work?
Being a workaholic
Holding stress of work away from home
Taking abuse from co-workers
Over expectations at work
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3. Keeping boundaries with friends after marriage is important in these aspects:
Types of friends; single vs married, with children vs without.
Amount of time spent with friends
One of the couple must agree is enough
Type of outings/travel…etc
Amount of time spent
All the above
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4. Love and boundaries should be hand in hand because:
Love does not abolish respect
Love does not allow abuse
Sexual relations need acceptance, comfort and agreement
Allocating responsibilities is important
All of the above
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5. True or False: an inability to accept boundaries may indicate a problem in taking responsibility.
True
False
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6. What do you say to your colleague or boss who always brings in a two-day job half a day before a deadline :
7. If you want your spouse to accept your new boundaries make sure that he feels that his boundaries are accepted as well. Sometimes this means that you have to ask him a few questions that can be quite uncomfortable for you, choose one that is appropriate to you:
Do you feel I respect your right to say no to me?
Do I give you guilt messages (for instance by crying), withdraw, become angry, or attack you when you set a limit?
Will you let me know the next time when I don't respect your freedom?
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8. Some in-laws do not understand the concept of separation and will always break boundaries by doing one or more of these:
Concentrating on defects only.
Taking sides
Too many questions asking for fine details
Fighting with the other in-laws
All of the above.
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9. A common boundary problem is preventing a financial disaster if one spouse just loves to shop extravagantly and permanently spends more than the family can afford. Putting limits on spending by:
10. People have tremendous problems when it comes to dealing with money, such as: (Choose what you think you are suffering from and discuss with your fiancé the methods on how to put remedies for it, please be honest with yourself)
Impulse spending
Careless budgeting or not budgeting at all
Living beyond their means
Credit problems
Chronic borrowing from friends
Working more to pay the bills
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